Saturday, January 27, 2007

A Highly Successful Seducer doesn't get upset at her “no's”

One of the myths in dating and seduction is that as a man you should be able to just go out and meet a beautiful woman on the street and have her back in your bed in minutes. We can recall times in high school thinking that “a real man” could just go out and pick up a woman effortlessly, which we later realized is a near impossibility. If you are a rock star or already very famous, it could happen, but for most of us there is almost no chance.

To meet women and have relationship with them is often a lengthy process. Along the way you will have to face all sorts of trouble, problems, rejections, etc. the number one thing that stops most men from being successful is that they give up when women ambiguously or uncertainly say “no”. From our vantage point, women most certainly will say “no” along the way. We view the dating scene as a game and part of it is that women will, predictably, say “no” at some point. You have to improvise a way to stay motivated and focused on your goal without pushing them in a way they resent. You need to develop a tougher skin regarding rejection.

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