How To Succeed With Women

A Highly Successful Seducer initiates everything with women

Men frequently fail to initiate with women. They either forget that it is essential, or they resent doing it. Perhaps they’ve been frequently rejected a lot by women. Perhaps they think they are so special that women will approach them and ask them out. Whatever the reason, here is what Highly Effective Seducers know: the man must always make it his responsibility to initiate every step of a romantic encounter. Effective Seducers never forget it! If you slack off, another man will be having sex with the woman of your dreams while you are home alone masturbating.

Men commonly think women give signals of interest the same way they would. This is a big mistake. Most men don’t realize that women do not do things the way men do. You must understand the crucial differences in how men and women respond to initiation.

For instance, if one of your buddies doesn’t call you back when you’ve initiated getting together, it is fair to assume he doesn’t want to accept your invitation. This is not the case with women. Women are trained to play hard to get, and are programmed to give mixed messages. It isn’t personal. In fact, you will be a much happier man if you just keep initiating; don’t take anything a woman does personally.

A case in point: a hot woman will never ask you out and will rarely call you back. If you really want her, you have to prove your worth. You will have to prove you are persistent and patient, and that there is something that sets you apart from the others. When a friend of ours met a beautiful 20-year-old woman at a bar, he initiated and got her phone number. He called her several times and she didn’t call back. He kept initiating phone calls and finally talked to her. They set a date for coffee and she didn’t show. He initiated another call and set up a date with her. On the next date he slept with her. His success was built on his persistence and willingness to initiate. What he didn’t do was take it personally, resent the woman, whine to her, or give up.

Just in case you are totally brain dead, here is a list of initiations you must make: the first eye contact, the first smile, talking to her for the first time, keeping the conversation going, asking for her phone number, calling her up, calling her again when she doesn’t call you back, asking her out, asking her out again when she “forgets” to shop up, all eye contact and touching on the date, the first kiss, every single sexual initiation, and any subsequent dates. In a short-term erotic relationship you will also have to initiate the breakup.

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