How To Succeed With Women

A Highly Successful Seducer is always prospecting

A Highly Effective Seducer turns every situation with women into a prospecting situation. If you want an abundant sex life, you must learn to do this as well. One of Bob’s fatal flaws is that he has tunnel-vision in his pursuit. Though he is consistently unsuccessful, he thinks he “knows” that there are very few places he can meet women. He is wrong. The fact is, women are everywhere. There is no shortage of places to meet them. Some of the best places are ones you are in every day that you don’t even yet realize. Because Bob doesn’t realize this, he only flirts with women when he feels like it, not as practice. He doesn’t turn every situation into a prospecting situation.

The Effective Seducer is also like a hunter. A good hunter is constantly outside of his comfort zone. This means that he doesn’t hunt only in places that are easiest to get to. He goes to areas where he thinks the deer are, whether or not those places are always convenient. He makes it a higher priority to get his prey than to be in a comfortable situation. He gets up before dawn, hikes in the dark, sits in the cold, and waits patiently for a deer that may or may not come, because he knows that if he is consistent, he will eventually be successful. This is a model for us all.

Look at every situation you are in as a potential for meeting women. You can even look at every interaction with a woman, be it at a restaurant, in an elevator, while pumping gas, or at the doctor, as an opportunity to initiate the steps to getting a date and practicing your skills as a seducer.

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