How To Succeed With Women

A Highly Successful Seducer never grovels for relationship

Groveling may get you relationship, but let’s look at the cost: First, even though groveling may have gotten you relationship this time, it won’t work in the future. Groveling erodes your self-respect, and a man without self-respect is not sexually attractive to women. So this leads to more groveling and begging for sex, which erodes your self-respect even more. Eventually you have no self-respect, no self-esteem, and must live as a worm groveling through every interaction with women. Is that what you really want ?

Second, how you are in pursuing relationship is how you are in pursuing your life. If you are able to have fun, be playful, and pursue a goal consistently but not be attached to the outcome, you will be successful both in life and with women. However, if you get into the habit of groveling and begging with women, you will be a groveling beggar in the bigger realms of your life. To some degree you’ll grovel to your boss, to sales clerks, parents, everybody. You will be a true loser with no self-respect, no self-esteem.

Third, women become sadistic and will take advantage of a groveling, no self-respect man. They’ll take your money, time, and will toy with you sexually, finally ditching you without putting out. In the process they will purposefully make you miserable. One women told us about a man she dated who would always grovel for sex. The man would snivel and whine whenever he wanted in a way that she found disgusting. As a result, she made him buy her all sorts of expensive gifts. She even made him give her his credit card so she could use it to buy expensive clothes. The problem with this guy was threefold. One, he didn’t realize that he was being exploited and punished for his whining. He lost his self-respect and was too naïve to realize it. Two, he didn’t notice that he was being overcharged for sex with this woman. Three, he inevitably lost her. He never really got the sex he wanted, and she got rid of him when she became bored.

Whining, begging, and groveling for relationship are behaviors you must stop if you want to become a Highly Effective Seducer.

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