Monday, January 22, 2007

Life is Great ??

A common problem. “I can’t seem to get women to like me”, “I mean, they like me as a friend, but when I try to make things more romantic, it never works out. I haven’t had sex in over a year. What should I do?”

All sorts of men face this dating problems. Some are your, some are middle aged, some are older. Some are salesmen, some are computer programmers, some are executives. They can’t seem to get women to have relationships with them. They desperately wish they could be successful with women, but they aren’t, and it seems like the harder they try, the worse things get.

These are good men. They are sincere and honest and would make good lovers, boyfriends, and husbands. But they can’t seem to get women to even give them the time of day. They all find themselves living hope – hoping that someday they will magically figure out how to attract women, hoping that someday they will, through some mysterious process, turn into super-studs.

Obviously, living in hope doesn’t work, especially about something important like relationships with women. It’s like hoping that your apartment will get clean, but not cleaning it. It’s like hoping that you will have enough money for your retirement, but not saving for it. You have to take the proper actions consistent with your commitments, not just live in hope.

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