Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Understanding Women’s Biggest Fear

One example, Dawn is years old, long blonde hair, big blue eyes, tall, great legs and blah blah blah… Dawn used to go out and flirt with guys at bars. She enjoyed about entering a bar and seeing how the men would stop talking and stare at her, drooling like gods. She said she enjoyed the attention, but she rarely gave out her phone number to or fated any of the men who came onto her in bars. Why ??

Because she was afraid. She would be attracted to a man and then get afraid of being physically abused or raped by him. After all, she didn’t know him; she just met him at the bar. So she’d stay distant, unattainable by the many men who desired her.

Fear of being abused, hurt or raped by men is the biggest concern women have in dating. Dawn and most women smartly scope out men to make sure they won’t be physically hurt by the men they date. They want to be sure they can trust the men they are attracted to before getting physically vulnerable with them.

If you want to have success with women, you must be aware of this most basic female concern. You must deal with the fact that women you meet will be testing you to see if you are “safe”, or potentially violent.

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