How To Succeed With Women

Details: The Key To Women’s Hearts (and Pants)

One important key to seducing women which I will return to again and again throughout this book is details. Women feel romantic when the little derails are taken care of, whether those derails are perfect candlelight, clean sheets, or the small particulars of how you dress. You may have noticed how many parts of the makeover focused on the details; that’s because properly managed details make women feel romantic.

You’ve probably heard women talk about how important “the little things” are to them. While women usually don’t give useful advice about how to seduce them, in this case they are telling the truth. A man who can manage the details will always get women in bed. In upcoming chapters I’ll show you how to manage the details in every aspect of a seduction. Here’s how you can make the details of your appearance work for you.

The “little things” in how you dress tell a woman a lot about you, and have a big effect on how she treats you. Evan has the “sloppy attractive” look mastered. He seems to wear torn, ratty cloths, but they look mysteriously good on him. He’s constantly surrounded by attractive women. What is his secret?

Evan understands the importance of details. He knows that it’s not important that his clothes not be torn; what’s important is that the details of his “look” all work together to make him look good. Torn clothes are part of his style what makes him different from other, unattractive men who wear torn up clothes is how he manages the details of his appearance.

First, even though his clothing may be torn, he still follows the four Rules of Clothing closely. His clothes are clean and orderly; I’ve seen him iron ripped blue jeans, and throw away clothes whose rips don’t look “right” to him

Second, his details are all wonderful. His style has a Native American air about it, even though he’s not Native American himself. His belt is from a Pacific Indian clothing store, and his watch, rings, earrings and necklaces also reflect the same style. This attention to detail makes him look like he’s thought about his look, which he has, and sends an attractive message to women no matter what else he is wearing. He never carries much in his pockets, and his glasses fit his face perfectly. He looks like he’s just thrown on whatever is around, looks great. The reason he looks great is that he’s thought about and managed the details of his appearance. Women notice, and find him fascinating.

You can use the details of your appearance to stand out from other men. Extra-nice or interestingly coordinated shoes, belts, wallets, backpacks, brief cases, watches or hats are all ways to show women that you pay attention to details and care about looking nice.

Slightly unusual details in your dress can even get women to begin conversation with you. One man we know wears a striking copper bracelet he got in India. Women often ask him about it, and he gets to tell hem about the time he spent traveling there. Another man wears an artistic pin on the lapel of his suit, which women comment on. Another man has a cow boy hat that fits his style perfectly, which women often comment on.

Tattoos, if you have them, are another kind of detail of style that can start conversations with women. One man we know has several beautiful tattoos and uses them to start conversations with women who have tattoos and piercings. “I like your tattoos. Where did you get it done?” will often lead to interesting conversations and eventually dates with women he’s attracted to.

Details to Avoid
Once upon a time, tobacco was cool. You could light up a cigarette, hold it casually, breathe smoke and look suave and intellectual.

Those days are past. Cigarettes are no longer attractive to women and, in our current cultural climate, are actually repellent to many beautiful, health-conscious females. Even many coffee shops, the last hold-outs for roll-your-own sophisticated smokers, have gone smoke-free. While it is true that many young women smoke because they think it will keep them thin, you won’t be any less attractive to them if you don’t smoke/ and you will be less attractive to non-smoking women, who outnumber the smokers, to be attractive to women, you must go smoke-free, too.

Even though cigars have come into vogue in recent years, most women still think they smell like burning commodes, and find men who light them up very offensive. If you smoke cigars, do it around other guys. Don’t do it around women you are trying to seduce.

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