Four Things You Can Do Today to be Confident With Women
1. Groom like a man who is confident with women
Think about grooming. Today might be a good day to try a new aftershave, or to get a better quality shampoo or conditioner. You may want to make an appointment with a good hair stylist to get your hair cut in a new way. Or you may want to get your teeth cleaned. Wash and style your hair, and trim any unwanted hair in your nose and ears. Notice how much more confident you feel when you are well groomed and looking good!
2. Dress like a man who is confident with women
Go to your closet and look at your clothes. What are the best outfits you have for seducing women, and what are the worst? Notice the shirts and pants that you should wear more often, and those that you should wear less around women. Also look at your details: What are the most attractive shoes you own? The most attractive belt? Hat? What earrings, bracelets, rings or other jewelry do you have that might be attractive to women? What clothes fit your body best, and are in best repair? What clothes make you feel most attractive when you wear them? What is your most attractive outfit?
Be aware that your most attractive outfit may not be the fanciest, or the most expensive. You may not look best in a suit, for instance; you may look best in a well-fitting sports shirts and a pair of clean, ironed jeans, with nice sneakers and a black belt. Whatever it is, put it on and wear it today. If you need to iron it first, do so. Notice the confidence wearing this outfit gives you with women, and commit yourself to developing a wardrobe of clothes that make you feel the same way.
3. Move like a man who is confident with women
At any time, you can change the way you hold and move your body, and change your level of confidence and how you feel. If you don’t believe us, try slumping and slouching, letting your shoulders come forward as if you were terribly depressed. Breathe shallowly. If you really take on this posture, you will feel less confident, and will eventually actually become depressed!
Fortunately, this works both ways. The same body you can use to make you feel unconfident and depressed, you can use to make you feel just the opposite. Try it now. Take on the posture of a man who is confident with women. Imagine, as weird as it may seen, that you are inside his body. How does he sit? How does he stand? Are his shoulders forward, or back? Put your shoulders there. Is his head up, or down? Put your head that way, too. Does this confident man breathe deeply? Do it! What’s this confident man’s facial expression? Try it out! It may seem crazy, but if you try it, you will notice a difference; you may even want to stand up and practice walking around with the posture of a confident man.
Imagine how useful this could be when you are approaching a woman. Before talking to her you take on the posture that makes you feel more confident and, breathing deeply, tall and relaxed, you approach her. If you practice this posture every day, you’ll find it brings out your innate confidence, and becomes natural for you.
4. Pursue like a man who is confident with women
Now groomed, dressed and moving well, commit yourself to having interaction with a woman today in which you pursue her romantically, while at the same time not worrying about whether your outcome happens or not. Put yourself into the zone, and give yourself the freedom of not worrying about the outcome. You may want to commit yourself to asking a woman for her phone number. You may want to ask a woman out. You may simply want to make it clear to a woman you meet that you are attracted to her. Whatever it is that you do, make it a little more risky than you are comfortable with – and, most important, give up worrying about whether she says yes or no.
Think again about the first questions I asked you at the beginning of this chapter. What kind of woman do you want? What’s most important to you in a woman? Is it that she be tall, or short? That she have wonderful breasts? That she be blonde, or brunette? That she be smart, or rich? What exactly do you want?
And then think again about the next questions I asked you: what kind of a man will you have to be to get that woman into your life and into your bed? Are you that kind of man already?
If you are like most men, you’ve realized that you aren’t yet the kind of man you’ll need to be to get the kind of women you desire. What you need is to develop your personal style – your way of dressing, and your confidence. You’ve seen how the way you dress sends a message to women, and have learned how to take control of that message so that it says, “I’m interesting, mature and attractive. You want to be with
As you develop your personal style you will discover many benefits it brings beyond simply being attractive to women. Once you start, you’ll find women are more attracted to you than they’ve been before.
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