Friday, February 16, 2007

Have Your Friends Egg You On

As men, whether we admit it or not, we love competition. It is useful to use our innate competitiveness to egg on ourselves and our friends to date more women and to do outrageous things we may not normally think to do.

We used this principle frequently to push each other to get out and date more. We would tease each other and dare each other to approach a beautiful woman. We placed bets on each other’s success and failure rates.

Once again, it’s important to have male friends who are supportive. If the competition becomes something that has you feel like a failure, stop doing it immediately. I am encouraging you to have friends to both console you when things go bad and encourage you when you get scared and are not able to be in action. No one understands all the potential pitfalls, problems, and pleasures of dating better than another man. If you are a guy with few men friends, and mostly hang out with women, this much change. Having male friends egg you on will produce results that far exceed any advice that women will give you.

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