How To Succeed With Women

A Highly Successful Seducer always acts with an outcome in mind

If you were cold-calling for your business, would you call up a potential customer and not have any idea of what you were going to say? If you wanted a raise, would you go into your boss’s office and have hours of meandering, meaningless conversation in the hopes that a raise would “just happen”? Would you take a potential client to seemingly random events and social occasions, hoping that for some reason he would decide to make a purchase?

Of course you wouldn’t. You’d always act with an outcome in mind. If socializing or conversing were part of getting to your outcome, of course you would socialize and talk. But you’d always have in the back of your mind the outcome you wanted to produce. You’d do the things that brought you closer to that outcome, and not do the things that had no impact or that might even take you away from your goal.

That’s what Highly Effective Seducer do. Successful seductions are built on planning, and having outcomes in mind for every step of the way. Where there is no planning, there is room for problems and breakdowns.

Having an outcome before the date means that , when a man is talking to a woman for the first time, he is focused on giving her romantic feelings or getting her phone number. On the date, the outcome may be to have relationship. After the date, the outcome may be to see her again, to keep her feeling special and interested, or to move on. You must always be asking yourself “what is my goal”? and “how do I want her to be feeling”? If you want her to feel safe, you must appear safe and not be too outrageous or scary. If you want her to feel romantic, you must ask her romantic questions and do romantic things. If you don’t want her to feel disgusted, you must not burp, make crude jokes or do other disgusting things.

Men who don’t have an outcome in mind are at the whim of circumstance and are bound to fail and most men fall into this category. They go with the flow and want to “just see where things go.” As a man following the Habits of Highly Effective Seducers, you know your outcome, and pursue it.

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