Friday, February 2, 2007

A Highly Successful Seducer is always willing to walk away from the seduction of from the woman

Have you ever seen a man totally at the beck and call of a woman, and miserable about it? Have you ever been that guy who is so dependent on a woman that you’re forgotten what you are about and what your boundaries are? Have you ever felt “taken” by a woman ?

Once the relationship starts, many men tend to give a woman everything she wants and sacrifice their self-respect in hopes of getting a steady supply of sex. Men often stay in unsatisfying relationships because they don’t see any way out. Or they think no other woman will put up with or love them. As a result, they stay in relationships, sometimes for years, miserable and knowing that they should break it off, but somehow never mustering the courage to do so.

Highly Effective Seducers are willing to cut off relationships with women if they don’t work for them. If you are not willing to leave the relationship, you no longer have any power or say in what happens. If you aren’t willing to walk away she will assume that she can walk all over you. A woman, like anyone else, will try to take as much as she can from you if you don’t show her the bottom line.

The same principle can be applied in business situations. A man who isn’t willing to quit when things become intolerable is at the whim of everyone’s opinions and desires. He probably doesn’t advance at his job or ask for what he wants because he is so busy being subservient to others that he ignores going for what he wants. The willingness to walk gives a man confidence in himself in any situation, especially with women.

Being willing to walk integrates a hard bottom line attitude while not being cruel. It is not a personal attack on her. In fact you are really saying, “I want X”. You can either produce that or I’ll replace you. A Successful Seducer know what he wants and cuts to the chase, saving himself and the woman time and energy. A man who is willing to walk away, even from sex, is respected and cannot be taken off the course he has set for his life.

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