How To Succeed With Women

A Highly Successful Seducer is never a prospect’s therapist or friend

Pop Quiz : The best way to get a woman to desire you sexually is to help solve her problems, listen to her difficulties, and to prove yourself to be an excellent friend. TRUE of FALSE ??

Every Highly Effective Seducer knew that this statement is FALSE. Being a woman’s therapist, confidant, or pal is one of the worst ways of getting a woman in bed. In fact, if you are a woman’s therapist, confidant or pal, you almost certainly destroy your chances with her sexually. While you may want to have women as pals on your own time, if the woman is a prospective sex partner, this could be the death blow.

The Therapist ploy. The man who tries to get relationship by being a women’s therapist thinks that if he solves her emotional problems then she’ll naturally want to have sex with him. He bases this faulty reasoning on the fact that if an attractive woman solved his problems, he’d want to have sex with her. Given the fact that he’d probably want to have sex with an attractive woman even if she added to his problems, his logic doesn’t make sense.

When a man discusses a woman’s problems with her, she associates him with her problems. Even if he manages to come up with solutions, he’s still the last person who saw her with them. Either way, she’ll want to get away from him. Effective seducers know that women are attracted to men who take them into a different, romantic world, in which they seem to have no problems, and feel wonderful. If a prospective lover shares her problems with an Effective Seducer he may listen, but he will never offer solutions. He’ll distract her from her problems by being charming and exciting, and get her feeling the way he wants her to feel, and continue the seduction.

The “Friend” ploy. The man who tries to get into a woman’s pants by being her friend fails with women just as much as the man who tries to be her therapist. Woman often decide if a man will be a lover or a friend in the first two minutes after meeting him. Once you are in the “friend” category, it’s very difficult to get out. Effective Seducers understand that if a woman is prospective lover, a man must avoid being her friend, and let her know about his romantic interest right away.

Women can be great friends if you have no sexual interest in them. If you are interested in a woman as a lover, take a cue from the Highly Effective Seducers: Don’t be her friend or her therapist !

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