How to Become Confident With Women
Overcoming the two stumbling Blocks on the Road to Confidence. Confidence stumbling block #1: Fear of Rejection
While the successful seducer knows that every “no” is only another step on the way to he inevitable “YES”, a man who fears rejection fears it because he makes it mean that there is something wrong with him. Here are some solutions:
The 30 Days Program for Getting Over Fear Of Rejection.
You must get yourself so used to rejection from women that it no longer has any negative meaning to you. A simple way to do this is to start small, with the easy-to-follow, thirty-day rejection-stomping confidence-building program.
If you are scared to talk to women and scared of rejection from women, this simple program will get you talking to them daily, and laughing in the face of rejection. It’s straight forward, painless, and easy to do. It’s based on a simple two-letter word that, when you use it with women, will build your confidence, start your talking, and be the first step in getting women into your life.
Are you ready for the word ??
The word is “Hi!” To build your confidence with women and to overcome your fear of rejection, for the next thirty days, say “hi” to women in public at least six times a day. That’s all there is to it. You are walking down the street, you see an attractive women, you say “hi” to her, and walk on. You see the next attractive women, and you say “hi” to her, too. And so on.
Don’t be deceived by the simplicity of this program. If you are willing to actually do it, and to actually say “hi” to a member of women out in public every day, your confidence will rise, your fear of rejection will diminish, and your success with women will improve. Here’s why:
First, your confidence will improve because you actually will be talking to women. Saying “hi” is wonderful because the interaction ends quickly. Like some other techniques I’ll show you for building confidence, the “hi” interaction doesn’t put your ego on the line, and doesn’t give her much chance to reject you. What’s the worst thing she’ll do, glare at you as you walk by? Who cares? It’s not like you’ve risked your whole ego by asking her out or trying to kiss her. You’ll get into the habit of seeing women who attract you, and talking to them. And that’s good.
Second, women’s responses to you will become less important to you. You’ll find that you are being the kind of man you want to be, the kind of man who says hello to whatever kind of woman appeals to him, no matter what her response might be. You’ll become less scared of rejection as you notice that some women smile and say “hi” back, that some women are in their own world and don’t even seem to notice you spoke, and that some women glare at you darkly and reach for their police whistle. You’ll start to see that it doesn’t matter; all that matters is that you are making life work for you by starting to approach the women who attract you.
Third, you actually will get into more conversations with women if you set a precedent of talking to them right away. Have you ever been in a situation in which you would have spoken to a woman, but the fact that you’ve initially ignored her makes it hard to start? This happened to my friend. After you have practice saying “hi” for a few weeks, it’ll be second nature for you to see that woman in line, look her in the face, smile, and say “hi”. You’ll be relaxed and not concerned with her response. And it will then be natural for the two of you to talk more, and for you to be able to use the tools from the rest of this book to seduce her.

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