How To Succeed With Women

Three Ways To Make Your Car Into A Rolling Seduction Chamber

By now you’ve learned what you need to know to give women the right message with how you look. You’ve learned the importance of developing your personal style, looking good, and taking care of the details. You’re looking hot and feeling good. You have a chance of getting a date, so now it’s time to start thinking about the other expressions of your personal style that women will see: your car and your home.

One of the most common lies women tell is that they don’t care about men’s cars. In a sense, we suppose, they are telling the truth: intellectually, they don’t care, and don’t think they could be swayed emotionally by such silly things. Women often like to make fun of men’s car as “extensions of their penises” (as if that’s a bad thing!). on an emotional level, however, women do respond to the kind of car you drive, and to how clean or dirty you keep it. They’ll just rarely tell you the truth about it.

This was brought home to us vividly when Esther, a female friend, started dating a new man. Esther is a powerful, can-do kind of woman. She’s very successful in her business, and is known for her hard-edged, no-nonsense attitude. She would often list her requirements in a man to her friends and was very clear that there was no way she’d have sex with a man right away. Or, anyway, that’s what she thought until she met Keith.

Esther put it this way. “We had dinner, and everything was going well. We had met at the restaurant and he was about to give me a ride home. It turns out he has a Cadillac Coupe deVille! When he set me into that plush leather seat, and closed the door with that satisfying “click”, I said to myself “I’m having sex with this man!” Which she did, that very night.

We were shocked by her revelation, but it taught us something important: the experience a woman has in your car can make or break your seduction. Most of us don’t have cars as nice as Keith’s but there are still things you can do to make your car a more seductive space for the women you date.

Like your way of dressing, your car sends a message to women. Your car can be an important part of your seduction strategy. Teenagers aren’t the only ones who have sex in cars, and many successful sexual experiences start in men’s cars, and move to the bedroom later. Here are the three ways to make your car into a rolling seduction chamber.

1. Make your car clean

It’ll be hard to create the right romantic mood in your car if it is messy. In this society, where people are increasingly living out of their cars, it’s easy to fill it with work projects, books, fast-food garbage, and things you’ve been meaning to take out, but haven’t. If you are going to give a woman a ride somewhere, it’s important that your car not seem like a dumpster with wheels. Remember, you are sending a message to women with every expression of your style that you make. Remember also that she is judging your style to see if she wants to have sex with you or not. If your car is clean and comfortable, you’ve made it past another hurdle. If it isn’t, she’ll get the message that you are a slob and not in control of your life, and be less attracted to you.

If you do need to carry a lot of stuff, get some organizer baskets to keep in your car. Dwight had to make a lot of overnight trips for his work, and had to keep files, product samples, and personal belongings in his car all the time. Not a naturally organized person, his car was always a mess of papers, trash, and dirty laundry. Though his guy friends didn’t mind the mess, women were repelled, and he wondered why he had so few second dates.

We had Dwight buy a number of plastic baskets, tubs and organizers, and simply organize what was in his car. Once everything had its proper place, the car looked neat, even though there was a lot in it. Instead of making him look like a slob, his car made him look like an organized man who was serious about doing his job well.

If a woman sees your car messy, we suggest that you don’t bother apologizing. Women are sick of guys who apologize for being slobs rather than having their lives together. Simply take the time to clear room for her, act like nothing is out of the ordinary, and hope you can see her again with a neat car.

2. Make your car romantic

If you are going to use your car as part of your seduction strategy – and you should – you should have the right equipment to make your car romantic. We suggest you have blankets and pillows in the trunk, in case a romantic walk in the woods becomes something more. You should have good romantic music on the stereo, and condoms hidden in the glove compartment.

You should not have anything in the car that will turn a woman off. Penthouse air fresheners, complete with naked centerfold pictures, should not be hanging off your rear-view mirror. Ditto for fuzzy dice. Your car shouldn’t smell either. The scent of old burritos or stale cigarette smoke is not a turn-on for most women.

You should also get rid of any signs of other women in the car, as I’ll show you how to do in a later. One of my friends ran into trouble when he was dating several women. One had folded a pretty paper swan for him, and written “Christy and Mike” on the wings. She had given it to him in his car and put it on his dashboard and kissed her so passionately that they went back to his house to have sex. Unfortunately, after he drove her home later in the evening, he forgot about the paper bird on the dashboard. The next day, when he picked up Jane for their date, she saw it immediately, read the message on it, and took great offense.

Your car should be comfortable, romantic, smell good, and not remind your date of other woman.

3. Make you car work

Doors and windows should work on your car; women don’t like to have to slide across the driver’s seat to get to the passenger’s. Also, your muffler should work. A loud car tells a woman that your life is out of control and you can’t take care of your property. If you can’t take care of your car, how will you take care of her?

We do suggest that you open the car door for any woman you are with, and close the door behind her. It’s not necessary to say anything about doing this – in fact, it’s better if you don’t – but you should do it. When you open the door for a woman, it shows her that you are going to take care of her and treat her like she is special. No matter how much she believes politically that men and women should be equal, on a romantic level she will appreciate you making this gesture.

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