How To Succeed With Women

What If You Are Fat and Out of Shape, or Ugly?

Your style needs to send a message to women that says “I am mature and interesting and you want to be with me.” Accomplishing this is more about what you do with what nature gave you, than with how subjectively beautiful you are. We all have seen men who, at first look, are no “feast for the peepers” who are dating every beautiful women. They are able to do this because they make the best of what they have, and have developed their personal style into something they can be proud of.

Carey is one such man. Weighing in at well over 300 pounds, Carey seems, at first look, to be a guy who would only get sex if he was willing to pay cash for it. Nothing could be further from the truth; Carey has a constant stream of women in his life.

How does he do it? Carey has style. He never smells bad, and always looks great. Everyone who knows him agrees that his clothes look great on him, and that he “wears his weight well.” He also follow the guidelines of the rest of his chapter, and his home and car look wonderful and are extremely inviting. He also has confidence, which we well also cover later in this chapter. Carey’s style shows that he is in love with his life, is a mature man, and that he pays attention to details. Subsequently he is attractive to a variety of women.

Carey is careful to never be apologetic about his weight. “I know I’d be healthier if I was thinner, and I’m working with on it,” he says. “But I know if I start acting like there’s something wrong with me, I’ll never get another date again. I just think of myself as a big, attractive guy. The ladies seem to agree.” If you express your own true style, it doesn’t matter if you aren’t naturally beautiful to look at. You’ll send the right message to women, they will feel romantic feelings about you, and you’ll do well with them.

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