Your Goal In Flirting
When Bruce leaves the bank, he’s left the teller delighted, and looking forward to seeing him again. Indeed, this is Bruce’s goal. In any flirting situation with a woman, your goal is for her mind to connect the idea of seeing you with pleasure. Any effective seducer knows that women respond to their emotions, not to their logical minds. An effective seducer uses flirting to get women to have happy emotions every time they see him.
Flirting makes women happy to see you through a process called “anchoring.” Anchoring simply means that a certain stimulus – be it a sight, a sound, a smell, or a person – is always connected to a certain feeling. Most people, for example, see a police car in their rear-view mirror, siren blaring and lights flashing and connect with the feeling of fear. Their feelings automatically respond to the police-stimulus, their heart pumps, and they feel afraid. The two are anchored together.
Similarly, Bruce knows that he is the stimulus, and the feeling he wants to create is happiness in the woman. Just as a person automatically responds with fear to seeing a flashing police light, Bruce wants women to automatically respond to his presence with pleasure. He knows that flirting is the structure in which he makes this happen.
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