Saturday, January 27, 2007

A Highly Successful Seducer knows it’s his job to pursue relationship; and that she has the final say

Men and women play a very elaborate game of cat-and-mouse. Men pursue and women either accept, reject or play hard to get. As men we often love the process, even though it seems tedious at times. A woman likes to know that you are persistent and worthy of her affections. As men, we love the conquest. We love the accomplishment of taking this woman who at first seemed like an impossibility and of knowing that we now “have her”.

Pursuing is paradoxical. On one hand it is your job to pursue sex and go after what you want. On the other hand, she always has the final say. You must go at her speed and yet push at the same time. Even if it doesn’t seem ‘fair’ to you, you must stop when she says, no matter what.

When men don’t listen to women’s “no” they are risking many severe problems. The biggest one is being accused of rape. This is a real threat.

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